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Reflections on Apology, Forgiveness, and Human Fallibility

The article explores the profound pain of acting against one's values and the subsequent longing for forgiveness and self-forgiveness. It highlights the inherent vulnerability and fallibility of human nature.

The poem "How to Apologize" by Ellen Bass uses the metaphor of preparing and delivering a large fish to illustrate the effort and intention required for a meaningful apology.

The process involves a journey, building a boat, and carefully preparing the fish, symbolizing the dedication needed to acknowledge and attempt to repair harm caused.

The poem suggests that this act of apology, though potentially fearful, is a safe way to connect and affirm one's aliveness.

It touches upon the difficulty of reconciling actions with ideals and the universal human need for connection.

The piece also references Maimonides's framework of repentance and forgiveness, linking it to Bass's poem.

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